Assistant Principal - Pastoral Care

In the coming weeks the College community will be deciding who they would like as their student leaders for the  2025/2026 cycle. These leadership positions vary from the election of College Captain through to our youngest members of the College joining the Student College Leadership team as an SRC representative for the first time. The beginning of this process along with the fact that the College virtue for week two is Leadership, presents a good opportunity to reflect on what leadership actually entails.

We don’t have to have a leadership ‘position’ to be a leader. Much can be learned from peer leadership and this can be as simple as being a good role model. Not only is it important for us to be positive role models for the young people in our care but also encourage them to be good role models for each other. In a world where influence is more accessible than ever, the role of a positive role model has never been more crucial. Whether you’re a parent, teacher, mentor, or simply someone who interacts with others in your community, your actions and attitudes can significantly shape the behaviors and beliefs of those around you. Together with this it is crucial that we monitor who our children may be looking up to online. These people can have a significant influence on young minds.

Being a good role model is not just about having the right traits; it also involves intentional actions and behaviors. Here are some practical tips for setting a positive example:

• Lead by Example: Your actions speak louder than words. Demonstrate the behaviours and values you wish to instill in others. If you want to encourage honesty, be transparent in your dealings. If you value hard work, show your commitment through your efforts.
• Communicate Openly: Foster an environment where open communication is encouraged. Share your thoughts, experiences, and feelings with those around you. This openness can help others feel comfortable expressing themselves and seeking guidance.
• Encourage Others: Actively support and encourage those who look up to you. Celebrate their achievements, no matter how small, and provide constructive feedback when necessary. Your encouragement can motivate them to strive for their goals.
• Be Authentic: Authenticity is key to being a relatable role model. Share your struggles and vulnerabilities, as well as your successes. This honesty can help others see that everyone faces challenges and that it’s okay to seek help or make mistakes.
• Practice Self-Care: Taking care of your own well-being is essential for being an effective role model. Prioritize your physical, mental, and emotional health so that you can be present and supportive for others. When you model self-care, you encourage others to do the same.
• Stay Informed: Continuously educate yourself about the issues and challenges faced by those you aim to inspire. This knowledge can help you provide relevant guidance and support, making you a more effective role model.

Be a Good Role Model: Tips for Setting a Positive Example

As parents and carers we have the most influence on our children (although at times it may not feel like it). It’s not only our responsibility to be a good role model but also encourage our children to be. They can become a positive role model who inspires and uplifts those around them.

Until next time: